The first few paragraphs of the don t judge me quote are the most important because they are the first sentences of the whole article, so this is the part that I focus on as I read it. I want to read it to understand what it is like to see yourself in the mirror, so I want to know how my behavior makes me feel. I want to know why I am constantly judging myself in this way and what I can do to change it.
All the things we are constantly judging are not true, and all the things we are not judging are true. The thing we are not judging is the truth that we always do and say, and the thing that we are judging is a lie we tell ourselves and others. The thing we are not judging is the fact that we are constantly judging ourselves. The thing we are not judging is that we are constantly doing the same things.
I think we are all guilty of judging ourselves to such a degree that we sometimes forget that we are only doing this, and we end up making ourselves feel bad about it. It’s really easy to tell yourself you’re not good at something if it’s actually just a matter of not knowing what to do and being afraid to try. If you think your job is terrible, you’re going to keep doing the same job.
We are all guilty of judging ourselves to such a degree that we sometimes forget how rarely we do anything right. You know how you have these small moments of pride and self-worth where you feel like youve done something good? We have these small moments where we feel like weve done something really good. We have these moments when we feel like weve done something really, really good.
You know what they say – you can’t change a bad situation. But you can change your attitude toward it.
At the very least, we all have a part to play in our own self-recovery.
In the end we are often the ones who make the big changes that affect our lives. But in the process (which can sometimes be painfully slow) we can affect the way people think and act. Don’t judge me for that. I know I’m not perfect. I know I have my big moments. But I don’t think that’s why I get all the credit. I think that’s why the internet is full of people like me. We can make a difference.
When someone who you don’t know is in a situation where they’re having a really shitty day, it can still be really great to say, “Yeah, I’m having a really shitty day,” or “I know that I’m having a really shitty day.” Not everyone needs to be in a leadership position, but we don’t always have to be in a position of power to make a difference. And that is why people like you and me are here.
Yeah, I’ve seen a lot of this on the internet. People say things that they know are true, but their actions aren’t. It’s kind of like what you said about the internet: people get so used to saying something and doing it. I think this is what happens with people who are really good at giving great speeches. They can get really fired up and they can shout and they can get really pissed off.
And I don’t mean to be a lie, but people like you and me are not only very good at this, but the fact that you make a difference is often the single most important thing in life. We are all good people, but when we are really good at it, we can actually make a difference. Because if you say that you care about us then it is important to be there.